Mom support

so after a hell—ascious yes I made the word up:) week as a friend and I sat with runny noses and sinus headaches getting a pedicure I realized how important having good mom friends is, we chatted about the things you never want to say but think, our beautiful kids and cleansed both our souls and feet.  We took some much needed us time and got to know eachother a little better as woman before the kids came.  For stay at home moms so often our identity becomes "mom" once we stop working and we forget many things make up who we are: friend, photographer, writer, walker, cooker, wife, surfer, yoga lover sooo fill in the ______blank and grab a girlfriend and vent, scream or just enjoy yourself.